Monday, March 8, 2010

MY MOM...

Respect seems to be like a boomerang in the sense that you must send it out before it will come back to you. Respect cannot be demanded or forced it can only be earned. As I see it, respect is something that is earned. One earns another's respect by voluntarily doing the things such as taking that person's feelings, needs and thoughts into consideration. My MOM is the only person whom i not only RESPECT but also LOVE a lot and definitely going to do that till my last breath. She has taught me to always try my best, to treat everyone equally, to not give up when things get hard. She tells me to at all times be honest because in the end, lies always hurt more. She instills the importance of family and of doing well at school in me.

When I make decisions and she doesn't always agree with them, she makes sure that I know that she is behind me all the way because she wants me to always be happy. She has taught me right from wrong and the significance of self-respect. She is my mother, the greatest influence in my life. Not only as a mom but also as a friend.

A time that is really prominent in my mind, that I hope I always remember that i was not one the brightest student in my class and being from a small town there was always a feeling of inferiority from other guys ..I was kind of afraid that the guys n gals wouldn't talk to me but I still held my ground. Then my mom was the only person who brought me out of this inferior complexity...First and foremost and only thing (a weapon) my mom taught me was to be happy and true to myself because I can never not face myself, and the choices I make. The talk with my mom helped me tremendously. The "easy way out" as my mom called it. In the end, she and I became good friends. She helped me realize that I was intelligent enough to be in the class that is why I was put in it, and that I could do anything I put my mind to.
When I grow up, I hope I can be just like her. She is the person who feed me the feeling of Dignity, Self Respect, Self confidence. Therefore, since my mom has taught me morals, values, respect, and has always been there for me, she is a significant person in my life. Everyone deserves to have a person who they look up to, even if it's not a parent or family member.

Recently when I was at a party with some close friends, a really good-looking girl I didn't know came over to me. "Hey what's your name? Would you like to come smoke a cigarette with me?" The first thing that popped into my mind was how my mom always taught me never to smoke because it is bad and could cause serious health problems. To this you might call me a mama's boy but to it i don't have any problem, as i know the person who matters me, (an for sure it's not you..) -it's my MOM and my mom's sayings...

Mom is always there to provide the love and support just when it's needed most...."Think before you act," "you will always have a choice to be happy or sad, to do what is good or bad and to do the right thing," is what she tells me.
This ,I owe to you for all your deeds that you've done to me.

LOVE YOU !!! MOM...




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